Best 6 TIPS TO BE MORE CONFIDENT AS A MAN
These 6 tips to be more confident as a man are techniques any man can use to become comfortable being himself in any room.
Tip #1: Get A Haircut
As the saying goes, when you look good you feel good. One of the best ways to boost your confidence level is to get a fresh new look. I am religious about shaving every few days or when the stubble begins to show. When I walk out of my house in the morning a have already decided how I want to be perceived by the world. Keeping my beard neat and my head smooth helps me keep my image as a clean man that takes pride in how he looks and smells. This makes me feel good.
There is something about getting out of the barber’s chair and knowing you look better. Walk out onto the streets and watch everyone’s eyes turn toward you. Whether you visit a barber once a week or use scissors and clippers at home, this type of change is noticeable, controllable, and favorable. Use it to your advantage. This is one of the few tips that have nothing to do with being in a social setting, however, after having a fresh new trim you will feel the effects long afterwards.
Tip #2: Get A Better Physique
Working out is directly related to having a positive body image which can boost self-esteem. Another one of the activities that will have a huge pay off later. When I am having issues with my own self-esteem it is usually caused by my recognition that I have fallen from my workout goals. To get that boost I pick up where I am and try again at the gym. The effects are almost immediate while the results take time. It has a slower reward than a haircut but positive change in muscle tone and/or fat loss is something to be admired. Such a change requires discipline and dedication. There is an added benefit of setting and reaching physical goals. Proving to yourself that you have the willpower, change will boost your confidence. When you are standing in front of a person or group, you will feel the confidence exude off you.
Tip #3: Buy Fresh Clothes
New dress shoes or new suit is like getting a new toy. I can’t wait to try it out somewhere. But why? Clothes don’t do anything but hang. It is because when I put on some outfit that is clean and stunning, I feel like a super hero. Like Clark Kent putting on tights with the “S” on the chest. It is the feeling I get when I put on the clothes that draws me to them.
Invest in yourself by buying a few shirts, pants, and shoes that fit and can match. I know that this seems a little superficial, but it works! Wearing clean, comfortable clothes makes you feel good. Once you become an adult your sizes are less likely to change, and your clothes become long-term investments that have the potential to affect us on a deeper level when we wear them. Enter an amount of money into your budget to begin building a solid wardrobe.
Tip #4: Ditch Your Comfort Zone
I challenge you to go into a social setting where you lack confidence and begin to step outside of your comfort zone. This list is about being confident anywhere including dating or networking in a corporate setting. You just got your haircut, you are wearing your new clothes, and you are looking good. Go to the coffee spot, park, mall, or grocery store and spark up small talk. Go speak to women that you normally would not speak to. Just have conversations. Be polite. Smile. Pat yourself on the back every time you can do hold a conversation with a pretty woman for a little back-and-forth banter. The goal is to get used to being yourself in front of others. Strangers don’t know you so there is less pressure. You may never see them again. Get comfortable engaging in dialogue. The closer you are to being your authentic self with people the easier these conversations become. That takes practice.
Tip #5: Earn More Money
I have had large amounts of money in my bank account. Although, I have also had my bank account overdraft more times than I can count. In my experience, life is better with it and not so fun without it. Money is what makes everything move and gets every person on the planet out of bed in the morning. Having more money makes you more attractive to… everyone. That gives you confidence. Financial security gives you confidence. Having money is having more resources to do more in life. When you do not have money, you are not able to experience everything life has to offer.
There is something that happens inside when you have that security of knowing you have all the money you need to pay our bills plus some. Well, others can sense that too. Women want to be around that type of security. Men admire other men that have amassed wealth beyond their own. We live in an age where a person can be famous just for being wealthy regardless of how he/she accumulated the wealth. We are a part of a society that decides socioeconomic status by wealth. The more money you have the more experiences, security, and status you have. If you want to be confident, find a way to accumulate wealth. The added benefit is chasing a goal beyond yourself.
Tip #6: Achieve More Goals
One of the best ways to become confident in yourself is to prove to yourself what you are capable of. Achieving goals allows you the opportunity to try the hard things that you are enthusiastic about. With each successive goal you will gain a little more confidence. Anything you try will be hard at first but over time it becomes easier. Eventually, you master it, and it becomes second nature. You could master anything you put your mind to. You will be confident in any subject you put the time in to master.
I hope this short list helps you on your journey through this life. You can achieve anything with belief and confidence in yourself. Join the community. I will post more on how men can be the best version of themselves.
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