10 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR WOMAN FEEL SPECIAL

Have you heard, “A happy wife is a happy life”? Well, here are 10 ways to make your woman feel special in your relationship. Don’t be the man that is stressed out because he cannot figure out how to please her. Learn how a woman’s security is a man’s peace.

1. Greet Her With Affection Every Time.

I make it a point to always kiss my wife every time I leave the house. I will tell her I love her. When I walk in the door from work, I go get another kiss. Why? My reason is because if I do not make it home, the last words I told her was, “I love you.” The kiss when I first walk in the door is my gesture that she was missed. I will not start doing anything else until I have shown her that affection.

Such a small gesture shows a woman that she is important to you coming and going. That intimacy is something you will not share with anyone else. In that moment you can express small demonstrations of love or even sexual desire. Kissing or hugging before leaving out of the home can keep the lines open for communication later.

2. Ask How She Is Doing.

It is important to genuinely care for the state your woman is in. If my wife looks upset or concerned, I always ask, “Are you ok?”, “Is everything ok?”, or “How are you doing, Babe?” I do this because it is my responsibility to protect her and help her in whatever environment we find ourselves in. Being candid, I could be the source of her discontent. I want to know why and communicate with her.

A woman wants to feel concerned for and secure. She wants to be treated well by her man. Even the strongest woman with the most money will feel protected by a man that is looking to fix issues and help her where she would rather not struggle alone. Simple questions about her well-being asked often gives a woman a chance to off-load concerns in the moment onto a capable man. She will appreciate your consideration.

3. Compliment Her Often.

Giving a woman an unwarranted compliment can brighten her day. Getting a compliment from the man she loves may mean even more so. It is so easy to forget to let someone you see so often know how beautiful she is, how great her hair looks, how great of a wife and mother she is. I make sure to let my wife know that I still think she is sexy and that I think she is a great person.

Compliments are one of the best ways to show your woman she is special because it gives her real-time feedback about what you are feeling towards her. Just as you may think you do not understand women, they do not always understand us men. You can fix that by being direct and telling her something good about herself. She will appreciate it and you will gain her favor.

4. Call or Text Throughout The Day.

Read: HER MAN BEST FRIEND

Checking in with your lady throughout the day is a wonderful way to let her know you are thinking of her. I get it. Some of you may find this to be extreme, while others will not mind checking on your woman or perhaps venting about your day. I am fortunate to have a position that allows me to be accessible and she does as well. We call or text periodically throughout the day to give each other updates about our day. Though we respect each other’s boundaries, we keep open lines of communication.

Once egos have been removed, texting and calling regularly is communication at its highest level. Don’t get caught up in who should initiate contact first when you are courting a woman. There is a balance between over-sharing and neglect. I suggest using your judgment on how often you should reach out to a woman based on hers and your respective boundaries. Once you have a healthy, exclusive relationship with a woman, you should want to communicate with her regularly. That is a sign of maturity. However, I am not suggesting you must track each other’s movements by sharing a constant itinerary. Communication is not about control. It is about responsibility and trust. I often wonder what could be going wrong if I do not answer a call or text. My duty as a man to the woman I committed myself to is to be there for her in times of need. She would do the same for me. If I call at 3am in the morning, she will pick up out of love and concern to make sure her husband is safe. There is no better way to make a woman feel special than to care for and confide in her through communication.

5. Give Random Small Gifts.

Giving a gift for favor from a woman is overrated. However, a small, random gift that is uniquely tailored for your woman is priceless. My wife enjoys dark chocolate with almonds especially during “that time of the month”. Every now and then I will pop in with a couple bars to brighten her day. I personally like to surprise her with flowers. I will cut them and place them in a vase with water. These little surprises are a display of effort on my part.

All your woman wants is for you to show effort towards her happiness and well-being. Gifting minor things that mean a lot to her makes her feel special because it comes from the person that knows her well. It shows you thought about her and took time to go out of your way to make her happy. How many women does she know in that moment that have a man that makes her feel as good as you did? How many other men are as thoughtful as you? You want her to have great answers to those two questions. It is the little thoughtful acts that go a long way in your relationship.

6. Be A Gentleman.

Women should be treated as ladies worthy of respect. Though, I have heard chivalry is dead. It does not have to be for your woman. I believe every woman still wants to be treated like she is the only woman in sight when she is with her man. I try my best to open all doors, carry any bags, and show her the upmost respect in public. I want to make an impression on her and the people around us.

Being a gentleman with a woman is a sign of respect for her but also for yourself. In this era, courting a woman with care and consideration is rare. How much more so will your woman appreciate you treating her special in public? Also, you can take pride in knowing other people are watching you as you behave as a gentleman. You show others you are a man of respect by how you respect your woman.

7. Respect Her Boundaries.

No woman wants a man to be completely about her all the time. She needs her space too. She has her own hobbies and ambitions. My wife gets up early and goes to bed early. I go to bed late. She likes her own shows on TV. She has her own priorities around the house. I help where she asks but I leave her to her space when necessary. I swoop in for an occasional kiss or rub to let her know she is on my mind. I do not spend an unnecessary amount of time up under her nor am I overly concerned with managing any details of her comings and goings. Space and freedom are vitally important in any relationship.

Your woman is not your pet nor property. You choose to stay together for mutually beneficial reasons. You choose to communicate your comings and goings out of consideration, not control. Neither of you “have to” be there. With that in mind, you must respect each other’s space, understanding you two are separate humans choosing to share experiences together.

8. Be Understanding Of Her Issues.

Women have a difficult road in life when dealing with hormones and menstrual cycles. This needs its own bullet point because of how the emotional states of a woman can affect the relationship. I once read a book titled “The Female Brain” (<–Click the link to check it out! #commissionearned #ad). I learned that women have different emotions daily because their hormones fluctuate almost daily. I also understand women get more sexually active leading up to “that time of the month”. The first day of bleeding can be the worst for cramps. All these things play a part in her behavior and as we men cannot fathom what they may go through, it is best to be sensitive to their issues.

As you move forward in your relationship be mindful of your woman’s concerns that you do not have to deal with. One of the best ways to make your woman feel special is to have empathy for her. Put yourself in her shoes. The power to bring life into the world comes at a price. So, if she has an attitude, it could be that she feels like Mike Tyson is using her uterus as a punching bag. Instead of complaining about your shitty day, how about bringing her some chocolate and a heating pad? Your consideration will be appreciated.

9. Stay In-Tune With Her Emotions.

Following up on the last tips, make sure to ask questions, be kind and communicate to understand where she is always at emotionally. I do not believe we humans can make others happy but my goal as a husband is to satisfy my wife. We are a team working together to have a great life. What happens if she is not happy? I try to help her resolve it if I cannot resolve it myself. To do that, I must know what she is feeling, leading back to tip #2. Having a good gauge on your woman emotionally will help you understand her better.

The idea of this tip is not so much for her but to help you overall. Understanding is what you will need to overcome the obstacles that relationships go through. Over time she will think of you and think, “He gets me. That’s why I love him.” Take the time to be aware of the person you will likely spend the most time with to have a more meaningful connection.

10. Communicate and Compromise.

Communicate and compromise is the name of the game. If you want to make your woman, feel special, you must communicate in a way that you both feel valued and heard. Any lack of respect on either side will lead to resentment now or later. Remember, you two should always be leaning toward each other. Even in disagreement, you should be seeking ways to come together in resolution. Compromise has a negative connotation, but really it is each person giving up arguments and finding agreement through communication. A man that can understand this will be able to create something special with the one he loves.

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